damn, who wrote your tragic backstory?

NOW WITH ACTUAL PERMISSIONS!! generally speaking you can always hit me up (plurk is preferred but discord/PM also fine) to discuss/negotiate/ask but i'm here to have fun and fun includes this loser suffering

OOC
PLAYER: madi
TIME ZONE/AVAILABILITY: EST, i work a very hectic day job & am also hella chronic illness so i can sometimes be sporadic! weekends are usually my best taggin' time but i try to get it in where i can. if i need to pick up the pace on a particular thread for AC reasons or handwaving or w/e, just hit me up, i'm happy to talk it out
CONTACT: preferred is plurk at runawayballista, you can also discord me (runawayballista#6558) or PM
BACKTAGGING: p much always, yes

IC
HUGGING: yes 100%
KISSING: also yes 100% although his IC reaction cannot be guaranteed. it's a great way to get him to stop talking though
FLIRTING: yes 100%. either it'll make him massively uncomfortable or he'll attempt to flirt back, both of which are ideal outcomes to me personally
ROMANCE: hit me up to negotiate deets but generally Yes i am Here for this. it doesn't have to be requited/mutual nor does it have to be happily ever after (although i also love those things). shang qinghua's prefs lean heavily towards men but not exclusively
SEX: yes.
FIGHTING/INJURING: absolutely but check with me first if your character is going to seriously incapacitate him. he's very bad at fighting for an ""immortal cultivator"". he bounces pretty well though
KILLING: probably yes but check with me first! he's died before
TELEPATHY/MIND-READING: give me a heads up first but yes because he has a tendency to vocalize his own inner monologue anyway
MIND CONTROL: check with me first but probably yes